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Many men have had the experience of entering what they thought was their dream relationship only to find out months down the road that their dream had turned into a nightmare.
This woman may have appeared to be the dream partner that you had spent your lifetime looking for, someone who truly understood you the way no one else ever had.
The bond that you formed with her may have been the strongest you have ever felt for another human being, and you may have very quickly been convinced that this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with.
But what you might not have known is that the woman you were dating probably started out in the relationship by idealizing you.
She may have only chosen to acknowledge the qualities in you she liked, ignoring the qualities she didn’t.
You also might not have known that she chose to only show you the qualities she believed you would like and may have hidden the qualities she feared would cause you to reject her.
You were probably caught completely off guard when one day you found that the love of your life had abruptly changed from your best friend into someone who now acted like you were her worst enemy.
You may at first have tried to ask her about her personality change only to hear from her that it was you who she thought had changed overnight.
In fact, you may have found that the more you talked about her new negative behaviors, the more she turned around and accused you of the very same behaviors.
If you are like most men, you probably felt completely helpless to reestablish any kind of communication that could allow you back into her good graces.
Despite everything you did, chances are you were forced to come to the conclusion that although you had no idea what could have caused this transformation, you were not going to be able to resolve it.
You probably eventually found the courage to end the relationship.
You may have at first thought you must be the only one taken down by this crazy-making cycle of false accusations and endless circular arguments.