At first glance the difference between Filipino and Western men is easy to sum up.
Filipino men are smaller, slender and their dark appearance make them stand out among the Western men, which are tall with fair skin and they have a robust body.
Once undressed you see more body-hair on caucasian men. Filipino men don’t grow heavy beards, they shave not as much as Western men do.
As much as Filipino women desire a Caucasian guy, Filipino guys are in doubt whether or not Western women like them.
To those that wonder if Western women are interested in Filipino’s I’d like to say: some are, some aren’t.
They desire to be the head of the household as well as a strong man in public.It is merely a ‘face’ factor for most Filipino guys are henpecked and the women rule the household and the money.Filipino men do admire and respect an intelligent lady in their hearts, however you need to ensure that when you are with your man in public areas, you appear to be the submissive one, the one to ask him and he is the one to decide.For example: I always give my Filipino boyfriend money upfront, so he is the one to pay the bills.
I always ask him what he thinks, likes or feels about certain matters in public and seldom speak my mind about things in public. For I do believe that not only the woman is to adjust.My boyfriend is dating a Western woman, strong, independent and outspoken, and he has to adjust accordingly as I have to adjust to him keeping up appearances.But because of his feelings and the culture I keep it private.It is all a matter of not loosing face, so in public I let him take the lead.